Find your Future Partner via Facebook
If you want to find your partner online, we will offer you a clever and very effective way. This is dating through Facebook. Of course without sending invitations like crazy with a machine gun! And no adding to dating groups! We will approach more intelligently.
1. Prepare your public profile.
Use your account preview feature as a non-friend and make sure it looks good. Your profile should show that it is real and give some basic information about you. Year of birth, city of residence and marital status are a mandatory minimum.
For a profile, choose a photo where you are alone and you can see clearly. Pay attention to what else is seen of you in public as data and photos. If you have photos with ex-boyfriends, make sure they are hidden so that they do not give the impression that you are in a relationship.
2. Add to all Facebook groups that match your interests.
You certainly have some specific interests, hobbies, understandings of life. When looking for a life partner, physical attraction is important to start a relationship. But if you do not have common understandings, interests, goals, your relationship will not last long.
You might be a vegan, atheist, fitness maniac, mountaineer, entrepreneur, gardener, rocker, admirer of esoterics or spiritual teachings. Participate actively in groups of your interest, initiate discussions in them and write comments.
3. View the profiles of other participants.
Of course, only those who are active and do not seem bound. When you like someone, try to have a dialogue between you and the other person in the group. If you have to provoke (without nagging), stretch the candies, bring water from 101 wells, but do not let the conversation die.
4. Switch to personal communication.
After some time writing in the group, the conversation continued in a personal message. In the discussion, try to be of the same opinion, even if you do not 100% agree with everything. Just ignore any differences of opinion and focus on commonalities.
5. Get to know each other.
Once you have switched to personal communication, do not continue to discuss side topics indefinitely. At the right time, you may notice that you enjoy communicating with the other person and transferring the conversation to slightly more personal topics. For example, what else does the other like to do, where does he like to walk, musical preferences, and favorite movies... without going into great detail?
Going through such basic things, don't forget to share something about yourself, while continuing to focus on common things. In this way, the acquaintance will be two-way and you will gain trust. However, the ultimate goal is a live meeting. At this stage, you should also send a friend request, if you have not already received one.
6. Offer a meeting.
You have already chatted for 2-3-4 days. You have found a lot in common and you enjoy writing to each other. It's time for the next level, so make an offer for a live meeting. If you are a man, you should send the invitation by proposing a specific date, time and place for the meeting, as well as have a precise idea of what you will do. Whether it will be a walk, bowling, coffee, billiards... the choice is yours. It is important to be in a busy place so that it does not look like something suspicious and dangerous.
If you are a woman, you are probably uncomfortable inviting a man on a date. In that case, just ask him if he wants to see you live. Nothing more. If he really wants to, he will take the initiative from now on. If he doesn't want to, then he's just not your man. If he wants to, but is afraid to invite you after such a joker on your part - you don't need such a man, believe me!
Summary
Online matrimonial sites like Matchfinder are a best way to find a life partner in arranged marriage system. Ultimately it your choice to choose either of these platforms based on your comfort level.
