Separations happen due to disagreement between partners or couples to an overly demanding vision of love. We expect a lot from love and it often brings us a lot of happiness. However, many couples say they are disappointed. Most of the couples started running into love disaster just after a few months of their marriages. Such cases mostly happen in some Indian villages where women have no right to choose their life partners. They are forced to marry someone chosen by their parents or family.
You have had your first marriage experience which ended in divorce. Today, you have found the man or woman with whom you want to share your new life and who has made you want to get married again.
When you remarry, it can be more difficult to find information and advice about it or to know how to position yourself. Especially in a society where widow is treated unequally and never get their rightful place. These are some tips to plan your
second marriage.
The ceremony
It is often difficult to obtain a declaration of invalidity of one's first religious marriage. If, however, you really want a ceremony rich in rituals and symbols, know that the secular ceremony can be a very good alternative. In addition, this option allows you to celebrate your union wherever you want and in a particularly personalized way.
The bridal dress
In Indian societies, we often hear that it is not possible to get married twice in the red bridal dress. Although many couples prefer simpler outfits for their second wedding, there is no such thing as a rule! Who says second marriage does not mean absolute discretion. You have found the chosen one of your heart, allow yourself as many pleasures and fantasies as you want.
Reception
Here too, we tend to think that a second marriage necessarily rhymes with an intimate ceremony. If it is completely understandable that this time you want a reception in a smaller group to better benefit your loved ones, nothing prevents you here either from organizing a sumptuous wedding with a large number of guests. You must above all be in accordance with your personality and your desires of the moment. Don't be swayed by what people say.
Church marriage
You will only be able to get married in church if your first marriage has not been celebrated there. Christian marriage cannot in fact be broken by the simple fact of divorce. The only recourse available to you to get married a second time in church is to have your first wedding declared void. The request must be made to the bishopric. You can also seek advice from an ecclesiastical lawyer.
Learn from mistakes
Do not hesitate to take advantage of your first marriage experience to improve the second. You didn't like the menu, the meal was too long, the entertainment collapsed, the choice or the sequence of songs was not ideal, a second marriage is also the opportunity to improve quality of your reception!
If you felt a lot of stress on your first wedding day and that anxiety may have spoiled some of the fun of the preparations or the reception itself, just remember it and this time enjoy your time to the fullest!
